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Rant about black folks


June 24th, 2010 Rant about black folks by Bobi-D It’s funny how much I hear black men talk about the cars, clothes and other material things that Jay-Z, 50 cent, and Lebron James have and how they would like to have it one day, But they never talk about the hard work, ethic, turmoil and dedication … Continue reading

Question: Does making a man wait 90 days to have sex insure that he won’t dog me out? – A practice suggested in Steve Harvey’s book “Act like a lady think like a man”


I get so many dating and relationship questions now from people who’ve seen me on YouTube or belong to my relationship facebook group. I’m humbled by all. I got a question couple weeks ago and I’d like to share my answer. The question comes from a chapter in Steve Harvey’s new book  “Act like a lady … Continue reading

Your facebook photos speak volumes. What do yours say?


Your Facebook photos speak volumes… Think before you upload/in response to women and their face book photos About two months ago I was scrolling down my Facebook news feed and I started noticing all the women on my friends list who had such provocative picture for their main profile picture. Now yes I know they … Continue reading

YBI’s Top 10 tips women should follow on a first date – Ladies


Hello Ladies  listed below  is YBI’s top ten tips for a first date. Noting that I say is law but i’ve lived and learned and want to share what i’ve done both good and bad. Lets go !! Tips for a first date Ladies 1.) First impressions are very important as well as lasting so put … Continue reading

My top 10 tips men should follow on a first date – Fellas


My top 10 tips men should follow on a first date – Fellas Hello fellas These tips are just my opinion 1.) Please make sure to dress like a grown ass man!! I once went on a date where me and a guy met up for coffee at a local Starbucks. He had on Nike … Continue reading